It's mine and my girlfriend's first valentines and I want to make it special. She is absolutely wonderful and makes a point of letting me know how beautiful she finds me but I've gained a substantial amount of weight in the last year or two and have kind of given up trying to look nice while struggling to feel confident and comfortable in my body.
I want to work on feeling sexy! I know this is a long process but I was wondering if there was anything I could start on now to pump myself up for Valentine's Day. I ordered some lingerie but am honestly super nervous about wearing it. What can I do for my girlfriend that's romantic?
I'd love to hear what you gorgeous folks do to feel confident and excited before a date or sexy evening!
What works for me is separating the idea of feeling sexy and the idea of being sexy.
Lingerie, smooth, lotioned skin, a good perfume- those things are sexy whether I'm feeling my most confident or not. Certain actions will always be a turn on for my partner whether I think I'm a ten or a two that day. It might not be how it works for everyone, but that's what works for me.