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Has anyone ever been to an escape room? And what do you wear?

It's my friend's birthday though so I don't want to be entirely casual. There's also going to be people there that I don't know so anxiety levels are going to be quite high.

Please help 😀

p.s. I hate jeans.

I have a wedding coming up which I thought I was just not invited but it turns out my invite just went issing. So I'm last minute panicking about what to wear. I think I've got the dress sorted but the problem is that it's proper freezing and all my dresses are quite lightweight so please share your tips on what to wear for winter weddings? Thanks

I'm planning a last minute vacation to Mexico in December. Any outfit suggestions or travel ideas? I'm thinking of Cancun and the east coast - so down to Tulum.

Whose ready for Halloween? Who's dressing up? Time to see those amazing costumes.

I’m trying to find me a pair of simple black high waisted jeans that don’t attract pet hair like crazy. I recently bought a few pairs from Old Navy and they were seriously a lint and hair magnet.

They were pretty disgusting looking just 5 minutes after taking them out of the bag. I guess because they were a only about 75% cotton and 20% polyester? So I’m trying to find jeans that don’t have a lot of polyester and it’s difficult. Especially since I’m trying to find them in short/petite it narrows down my search a bit. I can deal with regular length though if it’s the only thing I can find.

I was hoping I could get some recommendations. Thanks

I've booked to get my legs waxed tomorrow and literally had a panic attack after I got off the phone with them to book it ( also not great for me- hello social anxiety) because what if I break the salon bed?

Totally unsolisited because I have been there before and no furniture was broken but the panic is real. 😫

The other day I was at my friend's house and her brother who hasn't seen me in 10 years came over. He kept saying how beautiful I was, but that I'm fat and that I should lose weight. I know he wasn't trying to be malicious or anything, but this is not the first time I got this type of a compliment paired with an insult (in fact, I hear it quite often from people) so I wasn't sure how to react. I mean, it sounds like he's trying to give me a compliment, but points out my flaws. I always shrug or laugh it off, but I don't know how I should react really. How do you cope with that kind of stuff?

I have PCOS and dark hair, so it really shows. I have to shave my neck, chin, mustache and middle brow twice a week. My legs are hairy due to my own laziness, but it is also a lot of work to get every single leg hair when I feel forced to. I'm most comfortable with shaving my armpits. What I hate the most is my stomach. It's covered in black hair with a black happy trail so it looks like I have a man's beer gut. I just do not feel attractive at all and it's a constant fight to remove hair all the time. I already have a long history of confidence issues, so I'm wondering if any y'all with the same hairiness found a way to not let it hinder you?

Hey guys, I know Torrid has a collection but I don't really love any of it. Anyone know of good places to get some pride clothes? Specifically the bisexual flag if possible. I'd love to support small businesses and queer creators if possible.

Hello!

im a forst time buyer and have tried to get the code for 20 percent off but its not coming through.

Are you able to getthat for me so I can check out?

thank you,

sarah

I want to get a spray tan at a salon but I feel insecure. I've gained weight and have fat rolls and my belly hangs now. Would I would need to lift my belly up to make sure it all gets tan? Is this a common thing? Any tips or advice would be amazing! Please and thank you 💕

Hey everyone!

Does anyone have any tips agains sweat? Specifically facial sweat?

I am constantly sweaty... boob and back sweat is fairly easy to hide, and I wear deodorant, so, I don't smell bad. However, my face looks like I had a shower in summer. I'm so self consious about it. Even when i'm wearing shorts and a tank top i'm still overheating.

I have a literal nightmare when it comes to finding shoes. I have wide feet and am a bit on the clumsy side (😂) so a good sturdy shoe is a must.

The problem I have a lot is that when I try on a new pair of shoes I'm like 'oh they are comfy' and then after wearing them for a while, my feet are covered in blisters. -even after I've worn the shoes a few times to 'break them in'.

Brands that I've found work for me (most of the time are Hotter Shoes and FitFlop. Where do you get your shoes from?

Hi everyone, I need your help deciding what to pack!

I'm going on trip to New Orleans/ Natchez and Nashville in like two weeks and need ideas of what to pack. I hear it's probably going to be humid so have resigned myself that my hair is going to be a humid mess. I really don't do well in the heat so the factor 50 and great big sun hat are a given! I've also already packed my anti-chafing shorts. Not the biggest fan of my arms (literally always wearing boleros and cardigans in holiday shots) and shorts are also a no-go (unless they are underne something) please send recommendations. Thanks

An old friend of mine is getting married and her husband to be is from Duluth, Minnesota, so they're having a lakeside wedding there in June.

What's the weather like at the time of year? Not sure what to wear! Drop some links and advice for a gal in need!

Hi, new here. I'm trying to revamp my style and wardrobe, but as an autistic and ADHD young cis-woman, I deal with sensory issues which includes issues with clothing textures and fit. I want to wear things that make me feel good, but it's hard to find items I can stand wearing for extended periods of time. My go to is looser fitting leggings and t-shirts, which isn't really a good look. Most of my wardrobe is loose, soft, shapeless, and rather frumpy. Do any of you have recommendations for brands/pieces that aren't scratchy, or might work for me while also looking good?