Chats

Welcome to Insyze Chats - a plus size only forum for Insyze users.
Chats are a safe space for you to connect with other people in the Insyze plus size community. Get advice on fashion, beauty, relationships, body confidence and more.

Looking for some shoes for a wedding, please help!

Topic: Help Me Find...

Hi everyone, I'm looking for a pair of closed toe shoes to wear to a wedding in a few weeks and am not having any luck. I normally need wide fit shoes and have like ZERO balance so heels that are like more than an inch are a no go. Literally every pair of shoes I own ends up pinching my feet so I ideally need something comfortable that I can …

New here! looking for plus size lingerie?

Topic: Help Me Find...

Any advise on where to find sexy🔥 plus size lingerie?

I’ve tried looking on Etsy and google but only finding most things go up to US 16.

thanks for your help!

I want to exercise but not for weight loss

Topic: Health

I want to start exercising but not necessarily to lose weight. I have become stagnant since the pandemic and I want to get my groove back.

Is there a good workout or exercise for plus size people to get strong and feel energized that isn’t focused on fat loss?

Plus size women.. how do you deal with being told you shouldn't wear 'XYZ'

Topic: Fat Phobia

This happened to me at work. Seriously unprofessional. I didn't know what to say. I was wear a spaghetti strap top and apparently I 'shouldn't wear strapless with my arms'....

Best anti-chafing balms?

Topic: Beauty

I've always avoided wearing shorts in summer, but this year I'm finally going to wear them! I usually where anti-chafing shorts but can't really wear these with shorts haha.. Any recommendations for balms or thigh rescues?

How do I make my best friend realize that there a LOT of people who refuse to date fat people

Topic: Dating & Sex

Venting. My best friend is curvy but in a socially acceptable way. I'm talking boobs, hips, no belly. She is a size 14-16. I am a size 22 and there are people who are literally disgusted by my body. I do not find dates easily. I spoke to my friend about this and she refuses to believe that there are so many people who won't date me because they do…

Learning to accept my size and body.

Topic: Body Confidence

Hey ladies. I'm kinda new here, excited to see this forum and meet you all. I've struggled with body image my whole life. I've always been big and used to get teased at high school for my size. I've been on so many diets, tried everything to loose weight. I just can't. I've started following plus size instagram accounts and want to feel as confide…

Looking for a cute pair of 90s black pants

Topic: Help Me Find...

I'm really digging the 90s and y2k trends revival right now.. it's so funny because i remember this stuff as a 10 year old and it feels like dress up! anyway, i'm looking for some flared 90s black pants. Any recommendations?

Topic: Fashion

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